I didn't think it would come to this, but I need to clear some things up. A few bloggers have asked me about a conflict that happened a few weeks ago. I do not want to cause more conflict or spread any gossip, but a few things need to be cleared up.
Over the past few months I have been distant from quite a few people. I have been busy with my show and running my new household. I apologize if I have "hurt" anyone's feelings; I had no intention of hurting anyone but there comes a time in everyone's life that they move on or move in a new direction.
It has been spreading across the blogosphere lately that I have "disowned" certain people. I need to clear this up and I feel as though I need to set things straight. I did not disown anyone. I received a few emails that were strongly worded and I felt that I should distance myself which would be in everyone's best interest. I did not appreciate how things were handled, especially when my family (mom and younger brother) were thrust into this without any knowledge of the situation. I would appreciate it if the subtle comments here or there would cease. I have made my decision and I would appreciate if the problem was not discussed openly for everyone to see. I feel as though people are gossiping without knowing the full story.
I would hope that everyone can take responsibility for their own actions and leave others out who don't need to be a part of it. I apologize if anyone else was hurt by my choice. Remember that honesty is the key and I hope that those affected, who don't understand why this has happened to them are being told the truth so they understand why the choice was made.
I have kept my mouth shut about this situation as to not hurt others or fuel the fire. I would hope that others will do the same. I have enjoyed this community, but just like the Mormon Church it is full of gossip and judgment. Please remember that we are all good people and we need to keep certain things within a certain boundary. Not everyone needs to know our problems, especially if others are involved that don't want it to be discussed.
Thanks.
One Step at a Time
16 hours ago
3 comments:
This is very vague, and I think in a lot of ways causes me more confusion than clarity.
You're absolutely right, people shouldn't gossip, but that's hard to do when there is silence and mutual friends are involved. It's a can of worms, for sure.
Everyone loves you Dallin, and I don't know what "decision" you're referring to, but I guess it's irrelevant. Just as long as you're happy with the way things are, then I guess just leave it be.
I have no idea what this is about, maybe because I'm not as much a "part" of the blogging world or moho circles as some, but you'll find that every community--every single one, in my opinion, especially those which are tighter-knit--engages in an uncomfortable amount of gossip and judgement from time to time (or often), even if it takes a while to discover it's been going on or to become enough a part of a community to where you're the subject.
Judging only from this post and from no other familiarity with the issue(s), it looks like you're handling it maturely. Kudos.
I'm sorry, Dallin. I still love you.
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